Loneliness is the Real Killer
Why I work for Carer Hub to fight loneliness — and why you should care too.
Written by Dave Audley, CEO, Carer Hub · April 2026 · 15 references · Peer-reviewed sources throughout
This is a personal paper — written by our CEO in their own voice — that confronts one of the most uncomfortable truths in the care sector. A significant number of elderly people in the UK are not dying because their bodies have given out. They are dying because they have given up. Because nobody came. This paper sets out the evidence, the scale of the problem, what has been tried, and why Carer Hub’s companionship service exists as a direct, practical response.
What’s covered inside:
- The scale of loneliness in the UK — 3.83 million chronically lonely people, 6.9 million single-person households and rising
- The mortality evidence — a 2025 meta-analysis of 86 studies showing loneliness increases death risk by 14%, social isolation by 35%
- The comparable risk of smoking 15 cigarettes a day — and why we have campaigns for tobacco but almost nothing for loneliness
- When people stop wanting to be here — research on the ‘wish to die’, loss of will to live, and the phenomenon researchers call ‘losing the zest for life’
- Why things are getting worse — demographic projections, the collapse of community, and the limits of formal care
- What has been tried — the Minister for Loneliness, NHS social prescribing, and why it isn’t reaching the most isolated
- Why companionship care is different — and why Carer Hub is building it as a professional, platform-facilitated service
- A personal account — what the CEO has seen in rooms, and why this became a personal crusade